Sunday, June 21, 2009

lost love



it started in agreement. we talked. decided to enter in a relationship. and promised to cherish each other as long as the feeling is there. at first we thought we could make it work. and it did work for some time. but situations changed. priorities ranked. dreams and aspirations for our future and family outnumbered the few moments we have had for each other. then realizations came. we're not happy anymore. no more laughters heard, no more sharings of activities, no more communications, no more plans to spend time for each other, and no confrontations to deal each other's shortcomings. when the other opened the problem, the other one said the feeling was gone together with the interest for the relationship. so the other one decided its time for goodbye. not because the feeling was mutual but because the main ingredient to make the relationship work was gone. love and commitment. you cannot commit yourself wholeheartedly without love. you will never feel happiness through such kind of relationship. both will end up hurting and hating each other. so it had been decided to end the relationship. some would boldly say its not love, bec. we easily gave up, at one point i would agree. but love is not only true for those who fight for it, but also to those who can bravely set free of the one they love dearly with a hope to see each other happy... till we meet again... may God Bless both of us, our lives and our families...

Saturday, June 13, 2009

getting started




facing life alone is not easy. but God has been good for giving me wonderful friends to walk with during the saddest part of my lovestory. i call it a blessing. being able to laugh, smile and share my pain. without them (angels of God) i would be a total mess... thank you my friends...